Booking Policies

Please read the information below thoroughly before contacting me: it’s the best possible way to confirm that we are a good match, and convey respect and legitimacy. When contacting, you must provide a verifiable work email or a real phone number in order to be seen by me. I cannot verify you otherwise.

Understand:

I am high demand, low volume. Be advised that I choose my clients, they do not choose me.

Please contact me correctly. I require a proper, polite introduction that must include your name, age, and occupation. Please avoid contacting without including your desired appointment date, type, time, and length. Do not call me.

Who I See vs Who I Wont

I will never decline an appointment based on race, gender, or sexuality. I will not deny you based on your appearance, experience with providers or sexually in general, body hair, etc. I will decline you if you are rude, disrespectful, and lack understanding of boundaries. I do not tolerate ignorance, I will not hold your hand through what is a simple booking process, and I will not teach you how to be respectful of someone’s business policies.

Screening

Photo of ID, AND a selfie with your ID. Everything aside from name age and photo can be scribbled out.

This is the only verification method I’m currently accepting.

Real world information is mandatory, I promise discretion is of utmost importance to me. Your ID is simply for my safety, and is disposed of after the fact. Screening is only required for first time visit.

Screening is a matter of life or death for providers, which is why it is more important than your apprehension.

My job is inherently dangerous, and I hope you can understand! If not, you are not the type of man I am interested in seeing.

Deposits

All clients are required to send deposit prior to our engagement. This will not be waived and I do not make exceptions. No deposit = no meet.

Deposits of at least 20% of appointment rate are required for each appointment. I prefer cashapp, ($tessvalxo) but can provide Apple Pay or PayPal info if preferred. I accept deposits up to 50%. Please bring the rest of your donation in cash. If I am unable to make our scheduled appointment and you do not wish to reschedule, you will be promptly refunded. Refunds are given based on my need to cancel only. If your actions force to me to terminate an upcoming appointment, (disrespectful behavior, crossing very clear boundaries, any other harmful actions) you will not be refunded.

Cancellations

Canceling an appointment results in forfeit of your deposit. Canceling within 24 hours requires 50% of the appointment rate. Canceling within 12 hours requires 100% of appointment rate. If I need to cancel your appointment for any reason, you will be refunded immediately. I am chronically ill so I do sometimes unfortunately have to move around dates due to fibromyalgia’s unpredictability. If you would not like to reschedule in this case you will be refunded.

Please see etiquette page prior to booking.

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