Booking Policies
When reaching out, please introduce yourself respectfully. Include your full name, age, occupation, and the date and time you wish to book with me. Please specify the type of session you are looking for, as well as the length of time you’d like to spend together. I am selective about my clients, so a polite, clear, and respectful introduction is essential.
Note: I do not accept calls, and I only respond to those who provide a verifiable email or phone number. I value your time, and I ask that you respect mine by following this simple process.
Understand:
I believe that mutual respect and clear communication are the foundation of any connection. Before reaching out, please take a moment to read through the following information to ensure we’re aligned. I’m selective in who I see, and I trust you will understand the importance of respecting both my boundaries and my booking process.
Who I See vs Who I Wont
I’m here to create meaningful, respectful, and authentic connections. I embrace individuals of all races, genders, sexualities, and experiences — as long as you approach our connection with respect, kindness, and understanding of my boundaries. I am open to meeting those who value mutual respect and clear communication.
Please note, I will decline anyone who is rude, disrespectful, or unwilling to honor the professional boundaries I’ve set. I seek clients who are equally committed to cultivating a positive, respectful, and enjoyable experience for both of us.
Screening
Photo of ID, AND a selfie with your ID. Everything aside from name age and photo can be scribbled out.
This is the only verification method I’m currently accepting. Please do not send me your Linkedin or other profiles as it’s unnecessary. Social media, video, PD, and P411 do absolutely nothing to ensure my safety.
Real world information is mandatory, I promise discretion is of utmost importance to me. Your ID is simply for my safety, and is disposed of after the fact. Screening is only required for first time visit.
Screening is a matter of life or death for providers, which is why it is more important than your apprehension.
My job is inherently dangerous, and I hope you can understand! If not, you are not the type of man I am interested in seeing.
Deposits
All clients are required to send deposit prior to our engagement. This will not be waived and I do not make exceptions. No deposit = no meet.
Deposits of at least 20% of appointment rate are required for each appointment. I prefer cashapp, ($tessvalxo) but can provide Apple Pay or PayPal info if preferred. I accept deposits up to 50%. Please bring the rest of your donation in cash. If I am unable to make our scheduled appointment and you do not wish to reschedule, you will be promptly refunded. Refunds are given based on my need to cancel only. If your actions force to me to terminate an upcoming appointment, (disrespectful behavior, crossing very clear boundaries, any other harmful actions) you will not be refunded.
Cancellations
Canceling an appointment results in forfeit of your deposit. Canceling within 24 hours requires 50% of the appointment rate. Canceling within 12 hours requires 100% of appointment rate. If I need to cancel your appointment for any reason, you will be refunded immediately. I am chronically ill so I do sometimes unfortunately have to move around dates due to fibromyalgia’s unpredictability. If you would not like to reschedule in this case you will be refunded.
Please see etiquette page prior to booking.
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